Oscar-winning composer AR Rahman and his wife Saira Banu have announced their separation after nearly three decades of marriage. The decision was confirmed through a joint statement issued on Tuesday night by their lawyer, Vandana Shah.

In a heartfelt post shared on X (formerly Twitter), Rahman expressed the emotional weight of their decision, writing, “We had hoped to reach the grand thirty, but all things, it seems, carry an unseen end. Even the throne of God might tremble at the weight of broken hearts. Yet, in this shattering, we seek meaning, though the pieces may not find their place again.” He concluded the message with a bouquet emoji and the hashtag #arrsairaabreakup, which has sparked considerable online chatter.

Many netizens sympathized with the couple, while others were perplexed by the use of a hashtag for such a personal matter. Reactions ranged from expressions of sadness to surprise, with one user writing, “Who creates a hashtag for this situation?”

The official statement, released on Instagram on behalf of the couple, revealed that the separation followed significant emotional strain in their relationship. The statement read, “Despite their deep love for each other, the couple has found that the tensions and difficulties have created an insurmountable gap between them, one that neither party feels able to bridge at this time.”

The couple, who married in 1995, are parents to three children: Khatija, Raheema, and Ameen. Both Khatija and Ameen took to Instagram to request privacy for the family during this challenging period, echoing their father’s sentiments.

Rahman’s post has drawn attention not only for its emotional depth but also for the unconventional hashtag. As the family navigates this difficult chapter, they have urged the public and media to respect their privacy.