A woman’s exhaustive list of requirements for a future husband has sparked a heated debate across social media platforms. The profile, shared widely on X, details the woman’s expectations for her ideal partner, revealing a complex mix of high demands and personal preferences that have captivated and divided online users.
The woman, a divorcee with a Bachelor of Education (BEd) degree and an annual income of ₹1.3 lakh, has set a remarkably high standard for potential suitors. She is seeking a partner who earns at least ₹30 lakh annually, or $96,000 (approximately ₹80 lakh) if living abroad. Her ideal husband must own a 3+ BHK independent house to accommodate her dependent parents, and she has explicitly stated that household chores are not her responsibility. She expects a cook and maid to be employed and prefers living separately from her in-laws.
Additionally, the woman has specified a preference for a partner with an MBA or MS degree (preferably from the US) and a career as a software engineer. Her profile also highlights a passion for travel and luxury, including stays at five-star hotels, and she has expressed a desire for gifts from high-end brands like Louis Vuitton.
The post has garnered significant attention, drawing a spectrum of reactions from social media users. Many have taken to commenting on the apparent disparity between her financial situation and her expectations. One user remarked, “She wants an unmarried person despite being divorced. Her parents will live with her, but she doesn’t want her in-laws around. Her salary is ₹11,000 per month—essentially a maid’s salary in urban areas—yet she demands a well-maintained lifestyle.”
Another user questioned, “With an annual salary of ₹1.32 lakh, how does she plan to indulge in five-star hotels? And the expectation for Louis Vuitton gifts is quite a stretch.”
Criticism has also targeted the incongruence between her financial reality and her high expectations. “She can’t tolerate her in-laws but expects her future husband to accommodate her parents. She makes ₹11,000 a month and still wants a full-time maid and cook? This seems like a case of misplaced priorities,” one comment observed.
The debate touches on broader themes of modern relationships, with some users noting that “marriages are increasingly resembling business contracts” and others asserting that “her expectations are simply too high.”
With over 1.5 million views, the post underscores a growing conversation about the evolving dynamics of relationships and the sometimes unrealistic standards set by individuals in the quest for a life partner.
